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Coach OhMeDay's Self-help Resources

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A poem:

Letting Go

Coach OhMeDay has used this one-page handout for about 25-years--EVERYONE seems to connect with these words of wisdom.

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5 STAGES OF RELATIONSHIPS:

what we did not learn

What we do not learn is that there are five natural and normal stages in relationships that are predictable.  

In December 2022, I attended a NAADAC two-day therapeutic VIRTUAL training, Romancing the Brain: Conflict Resolution for Recovery (CRR) --facilitated by Cynthia Moreno Tuohy, BSW, NCAC II, CDC III, SAP--Executive Director of NAADAC, the Association for Addiction Professionals.

 

In the 12-hour training was a session on Relationships.  It provided life-changing information for me—material that I would have benefited from had I known it when I was 23-years old.  

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How Do I Love Thee? . . . Characteristics of Partnerships

Take an assessment of the characteristics of your relationship. Answer 13 questions to determine if your relationship is dysfunctional or functional (I prefer to say "unhealthy vs healthy").

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4 Types of AGREEMENTS  - in a RELATIONSHIP

From the 5 Stages of Relationships training (see pdf on this page), we learned that there is one stage known as AWAKENING . . . and included in that stage are
Four areas we ask people to consider in terms of what they “need” in a relationship.

This information was LIFE CHANGING FOR ME!


HERE YOU WILL LEARN . . .
• How to Listen with Your Heart
• How to ask to have your needs met – from the 4 areas
• What are your significant’s needs - from the 4 areas
• How to form AGREEMENTS together!

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23 DRUG-FREE WAYS

TO DUMP

DEPRESSION & ANXIETY

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FINANCIAL AGREEMENT & BUDGET  - in a RELATIONSHIP

Free PDF Download Budget Spreadsheets For Couples 

  • COUPLES BUDGET 50/50

  • COUPLES BUDGET - Proportional

(select from PDFs below:)

FREE Self-help
Resources

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Janis Small Omide
MS, MAC, CSAC, QMHP

More onbuilding Healthier Relationships

The Love Language
QUIZ

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#1 / The Quiz

The Love Language Quiz was created by  Dr. Gary Chapman and presented in his book:  The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. 

Take the OVE LANGUAGE Quiz!

#2 / The Quiz SCORE Sheet

What are your scores? . . .

Which of the 5 Is Your Partner?

#3 / The Quiz Results

Now that you know your “partner’s” Love Language, let’s learn how to speak it!

 

 

 

The information here is based entirely from Dr. Gary Chapman’s book:  The Five Love Languages:  How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate 

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